Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor
It has been a while since I have seen something so incredibly disgusting on tumblr, and considering some of the disgusting people I have encountered, that truly takes the cake. Why as males do some of us feel that because we pay for someones food we automatically assume they shall reciprocate sexually? This entitlement of a woman’s body is disgusting and incredibly fucked up. This is attitude is the very attitude that spurns rapists into doing the horrifying things they do. Your kindness coins will never give you automatic access to women’s bodies.
It is incredibly disgusting that anyone could ever put forth immensely insensitive expectations on another simply because you have put out material kindness, and your kindness can’t even be called that.
Kindness is doing something good for a person without the expectation of ever getting anything in return. To expect or emotionally blackmail someone with your acts of generosity isn’t generous; it is manipulative and disgusting. Women are not like classroom charts where you place your gold stars in hopes for an ice cream social at the end of the week, in this case sex being the prize. You wonder why some women legitimately hate and despise allowing men to pay for their food? Could it be because they would rather afford it themselves knowing there wont be strings attached to their meal if they do?
Sex is not gift for your ability to pay for Red Lobster, sex is a mutual agreement based upon trust and care.
Learn how to form real human relationships based on respect or get the fuck out.
Socialistscum nailed it. Emphasis mine.
The original post disturbed me to the point that I can’t even reblog it.
